Self-confidence is very important in our life, because there is a very famous saying, that losing with the mind is defeat, and winning with the mind is victory, if studied, we will find that many decisions of our life, in fact all the decisions revolve around this word.
Benefits of Self-confidence;
For this, our attitude becomes like the environment around us, we develop in the same way, then we deliver things with strength, and face many adverse circumstances firmly, and are able to come out of difficult situations due to our tolerance, and when our conditions are good, we do not fall prey to overconfidence and underestimate others, and behave decently with everyone.
So we can say that self-confidence saves us from becoming unbridled in good conditions, and saves us from losing temper in bad conditions, it saves us from flying in the air and sinking into the ground while still alive.
Meaning of self-confidence;
Let us now know what Google Gyani says about self-confidence. Self-confidence is an attitude about our skills and abilities. It means that we accept and trust ourselves and have a sense of control over our lives. We are well aware of our strengths and weaknesses, and have a positive attitude about ourselves. We set realistic expectations and goals, communicate assertively, and can handle criticism.
Self-confidence is the discovery of the treasure hidden within us;
So if we want to say it this way, that self-confidence is the belief in ourselves, and the assessment of ourselves, what is inside us? In a way, self-confidence is the discovery of this treasure.
Self Confidence Is Oxygen;
Self-confidence is very important in our life, because there is a very famous saying, that losing with the mind is defeat, and winning with the mind is victory. If we study, we will find that many decisions of our life, rather all the decisions revolve around this word.
Benefits of Self-confidence;
For this, our attitude becomes like the environment around us, we develop in the same way, then we deliver things with strength, and face many adverse circumstances firmly, and are able to come out of difficult situations due to our tolerance, and when our conditions are good, we do not fall prey to overconfidence and underestimate others, and behave decently with everyone.
So we can say that self-confidence saves us from becoming unbridled in good conditions, and saves us from losing temper in bad conditions, it saves us from flying in the air and sinking into the ground while still alive.
Meaning of Self-confidence;
Let us now know what Google Gyani says about self-confidence. Self-confidence is an attitude about our skills and abilities. It means that we accept and trust ourselves and have a sense of control over our lives. We are well aware of our strengths and weaknesses, and have a positive attitude about ourselves. We set realistic expectations and goals, communicate assertively, and can handle criticism.
Self-confidence is the discovery of the treasure hidden within us;
So if we want to say it this way, that self-confidence is the belief in ourselves, and the assessment of ourselves, what is inside us? In a way, self-confidence is the discovery of this treasure.
To gain self-confidence, it is very important to recognize the beauty of our inner capabilities. We cannot recognize ourselves without recognizing what our heart is like. And when we cannot recognize ourselves, we become a confused character. Then our self-confidence keeps on decreasing and we become isolated in a way.
One should avoid ordering tea in a liquor shop;
To make a bird swim in water, to make a fish climb a mountain, to make an elephant fly in the air and if it fails, then calling them a failure and making them realize that you lack self-confidence is sheer stupidity. That is why it is important for us to recognize our place to perform properly.
Knowledge from all four directions is dangerous;
If we are in the company of such people who talk too much about ideas and are unable to move beyond their words, then our confusion increases a lot because the storm of ideas from all four directions does not allow us to move forward because self-confidence is like the wind which helps us to move forward, but if the wind comes from all four directions then it is very difficult for us to move forward. For this, the more people we talk to, the more they will analyze us and will tell us according to their thinking about us or how they see us. That is why we should avoid taking opinions from other than a few people and save our life from becoming a zoo.
No One has been able to escape commercialism;
If we look at this, we cannot even imagine the amount of (Churan) powder sold in the name of self-confidence in this world, that everyone is driven with a same stick, this behavior needs to be understood, and if we are able to understand this behavior, that all the people who are selling confidence in the name of self-confidence, have very limited articles on their Shelf, and if we go to them, whether it fits us or not, they try to make us fit that cover, like this shopkeeper, who has a size 10 shoe, and our foot size is size 9, then he blames us, that there is a defect in our foot, and tries to fit a size 10 shoe on a size 9 foot, they become successful by selling their goods, but we do not get Peace, we also know this behavior as square peg in the round hole, while none of them talks about our inner beauty, talent, well it is their compulsion too, because whatever they have, they are selling us, But our mistake is that why are we going to them to learn something that is not useful for us.
They make us Materialistic;
All those people who sell powder in the name of self-confidence actually make a person greedy, in which they only teach that this has to be achieved, this much is there, this has to be achieved, how to impress the committee, how to impress people, how to impress men and women, they make a person a product, So overall all these things attract our thinking towards the material world, although if a person finds a mountain of gold, he immediately starts struggling to find another mountain, only the grave can end the greed of a person, his lust and hunger.
Example of Celebrities;
However, if after getting everything, one could get peace, then celebrities would never go into depression, but most of them sleep at night by eating sleeping pills or by taking drugs so that they can sleep, then this is the proof of the fact that this heart does not get peace from the material world, until the mention of The Creator of this world, this heart-like child cannot be amused by any toy, and until a person does not live a social life, it is very difficult to get the treasure called peace, and peace is a very precious thing, we also need to use our intelligence a little bit on this, Because if people did not get Peace in their lives by getting those things, then how can we get Peace by getting them.
Michael The Mighty;
This whole episode can be understood very well by taking an example, whether we need what we are trying to get or not, Because everyone in this world is designed differently by the creator of this world, everyone has their own capabilities, strengths and weaknesses.
So that example is like this, that a very physically strong person boarded a bus at a bus stop and sat on the back seat of the bus, and shouted that "Michael the Mighty" will not take a ticket, on this the conductor, driver and all the passengers of the bus turned and looked at Michael, and seeing his physique, no one said anything and the conductor did not even ask Michael for a ticket.
The same incident happened again the next day, and this sequence continued continuously, once the conductor introspected on this and he understood that he lacked self-confidence, so to gain his lost confidence, he started going to the gym, and in about 6 months, by eating drums of protein and sweating in liters, he achieved a strong body.
Now one day Michael boarded the bus and he repeated the same thing that he used to say everyday, "Michael the Mighty" will not take the ticket, then the bus conductor shouted and said, "And why will Michael not take the ticket"
"So on this Michael said, because Michael has A Bus Pass"
Author Imran Uz Zaman
E-mail imranuzzaman01@gmail.com